http://ariellu.blogbus.com/Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:53:16 GMTfreedom is everything博客大巴http://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlSun, 08 Nov 2009 00:53:16 GMThttp://public.blogbus.com/profile/head.gifhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50611865.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50611865.html<p>这个世界信奉的并不是劳动创造价值，</p> <p>而是供求创造价值</p> <p>在一切完美的成品问世之前</p> <p>千万不要标榜自己为之付出的心血，不论是否有人看得到</p> <p>因为那样的标榜并不会使那个黯淡的标签增色，只能博取同情罢了</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F50611865.html&title=%E4%BB%B7%E5%80%BC%E7%9A%84%E6%A0%87%E7%AD%BE">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293571486/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50611865.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293571486/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293571486/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>未分类Sun, 08 Nov 2009 08:49:05 +0800http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50611865.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50611865.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlblogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/~6933733/293571486/5041645http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50505998.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/50505998.html<p>想得多，做到的少，是一件值得羞愧的事，这你也知道</p> <p>how和why，就像那场讲座听到制度和国民性一样，只是一个鸡和蛋的问题，</p> <p>何必沉溺在其中浪费光阴呢</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a 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<p>从服装的选择放置、场景的布局、公司的沟通、人物的邀请、创意的礼物、交谈敬酒的礼数，无不考虑地细致周到。眼前这个闪耀的带着公主皇冠的练达的她让我又钦佩又自豪又陌生。</p> <p>当年在火车上，看到王安忆的《现代生活》里有一篇关于艺术照的，说是写实也罢，说是小说也罢的文章。这本书在我脑袋里留下的大部分的段落全都模糊不清，但这篇却全是今天这般清晰的画面感，房里粉嫩的婚纱照，还有今天那粉嫩的妆，密密垂下的卷发，瓦格纳的婚礼进行曲。</p> <p>那些闷热的夜晚，和姐姐卧谈，谈论那些如今名单上人物的是是非非，总觉得时间的流淌也不过是这样季节的变换，偶尔的故事主角的变换，但再遥远的也不过是校园的那些琐事。但忽然钟表就好象被加快了，或是四格漫画一下子晋升为了动画一样。身边的人物走马观花，出国的，创业的，旧爱新欢，意外的交集。似乎突然间就有太多本该发生的事被匆忙的压缩在了这几年的岁月。</p> <p>换了礼服，卷了头发，递了戒指。难为了姐姐带着我这么一个不太合格的粗心的伴娘。</p> <p>也许过不了多久，身边可爱的姑娘们结婚的时候，我更愿意逃开这些可怕的仪式，扛着个小单反，当一回跟拍的狗仔队吧</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F49025105.html&title=%E8%BE%9B%E8%8B%A6%E7%9A%84%E5%A9%9A%E7%A4%BC">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293252240/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/49025105.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252240/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252240/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>未分类Fri, 23 Oct 2009 22:52:09 +0800http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/49025105.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/49025105.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlblogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/~6933733/293252240/5041645http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/48134216.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/48134216.html<p>有些东西是不能妄加跳跃的</p> <p>就像到洞房那天才开始第一次见面和了解是一件很荒谬的事情一样</p> <p>要想了解所有一切共通之处，总要先找一条途径顺着它慢慢爬上去</p> <p>也许艺术之类到最后的欣赏就完全是凭借灵性，但在那所谓的灵性被调动之前还是需要了解它的语言</p> <p>比如音阶的规律，节奏的变化，笔锋的顿挫之类的</p> <p>被藐视的其实不是途径，只是那些徘徊在途径上就自以为了不起的人而已</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F48134216.html&title=understanding">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293252241/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/48134216.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252241/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252241/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>未分类Sun, 11 Oct 2009 14:45:30 +0800http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/48134216.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/48134216.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlblogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/~6933733/293252241/5041645http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/47524806.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/47524806.html<p>如果将来真的出现一个你，希望你只是在情绪不那么平静的时候联系我，比如激动的时候，特别快乐的时候，寂寞地无处发泄的时候，伤心的时候，看了一场精彩演出的时候，听了一首激起最深处共鸣的时候，抽了一支烟的时候，一场回味不尽的电影散场的时候，满天星空或者电闪雷鸣的时候，火车离开站点的时候。</p> <p>不要总是问我在做什么，不要在意我是不是回复，不要说煽情的话，不要重复太多次同样的问题，不要太明显地表露出关心，不要始终很正经也不要始终不正经，不要太理想主义也不要太功利。</p> <p>有时疯狂有时安静，懂得品牌也懂得随意，用不骄傲的语气告诉我那些我不知道的东西</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>长久的失去联系会忘却么？</p> <p>我常常忽然想起一些姑娘，但最终没有短信，没有信件，只是会忽然想起来，或是看着她们的日志充满感慨而已</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a 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<p>&nbsp;</p> <p>2.能把自己贬得很低</p> <p>能把所有和自己有关的事贬的很低</p> <p>然而当所有人都开始责难那些东西时</p> <p>你却趾高气昂，怒目圆睁地为那一切辩护，因为那一切垒起来的自尊，你觉得只有自己能弄塌它，而不能容忍任何其他人去摧毁</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>3. the places i have been, </p> <p>the odd things i have seen, </p> <p>these are a few of my favorite things.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/14849201254494377v.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="276" height="369" />&nbsp;&nbsp; michigan lake @ chicago</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/14849201254494439w.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="321" height="239" />&nbsp; samantha's apt. @cornell in ithaca</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/148492012544944046.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="318" height="219" />&nbsp; sunset @purdue in lafayette</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/14849201254495094k.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="315" height="236" />&nbsp; pike market @seattle</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/148492012544946592.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="280" height="365" /> outside the broadway theatre @ny</p> <p><img src="http://filer.blogbus.com/1484920/14849201254494781l.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="273" height="363" /> near the hostel @DC</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F47497189.html&title=sept.">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293252243/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/47497189.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252243/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252243/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" 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border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252244/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252244/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>未分类Sun, 20 Sep 2009 12:14:18 +0800http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46809415.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46809415.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlblogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/~6933733/293252244/5041645http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46767099.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46767099.html<p>现在更深刻的感觉到</p> <p>上海恐怕真的是世界上最便利的城市之一</p> <p>它有时可能不够小资，空气不够新鲜，交通有些拥挤，人们有些精明过度，甚至可能爱闯红灯、乱吐痰</p> <p>但毫无疑问，哪怕它有时候有点俗气，它仍旧是最便利的</p> <p>二十年来就这样被它的便利惯坏了</p> <p>以致其实根本无法对没有交通，却有玉米地和各种昆虫的地方心满意足</p> <p>如果这个城市的色彩更鲜艳一些，公车前也装上可以放自行车的架子，有几座由内到外都象样的大学，建筑更加精细，甚至在柱檐上点缀几盆象样的小花，人们透着一些礼让整洁的气质，那么也许这辈子，我就会心甘情愿地生死在这片小土地上，而不是总渴望到别处去了</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F46767099.html&title=%E5%A4%A7%E9%83%BD%E5%B8%82">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293252245/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46767099.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252245/art01.html" target="_blank"><img border="0" ismap="ismap" src="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/i/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252245/art01.gif" onerror="this.style.display='none'" /></a></p>未分类Sat, 19 Sep 2009 14:40:04 +0800http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46767099.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/46767099.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/atom.xmlblogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/~6933733/293252245/5041645http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/43524249.htmlhttp://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/43524249.html<p>1.一定要弄清每个日期的准确意义，是项目的结束或是离开</p> <p>每个地点的准确交通，多少公里，有没有公交</p> <p>假期的申请和违规的处罚情况，最长申请期限，几次机会，弥补方法，是否照样pay</p> <p>地点或是任何可以允许变动的条款</p> <p>开户闭户的手续和办理方法，可否委托，如何取得，如何直接将check打入账上</p> <p>无论怎样的条件和应允一定要拿到书面的证据</p> <p>物品的保质期，能否无条件退货，</p> <p>车票的cacelling fee, 或是改签条件</p> <p>2.prisonbreak failed.</p> <p>有些事行动或不行动都会成为后悔的源头</p> <p>但它们的存在总是有他们的价值</p> <p>哪怕是痛苦的教训或纯粹的享乐</p> <p>一直在寻找无法肆意过日子的原因</p> <p>是因为太想放开，于是就被这个想法绑在了日子之上</p> <p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a 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<p>发现个重大的双重合同问题</p> <p>和雇主已经到了翻脸的边缘</p> <p>任人宰割了啊任人宰割了</p> <p>眼见机票钱水涨船高真是心疼</p> <p>不过总的来说，三个星期900刀，如果不算物价仅仅看汇率的话</p> <p>我也算是过了一把中层阶级蓝领的瘾了</p> <p>附上鸟不xx的所在地地图一份</p> <p>这条路线是一群无车之人夜夜yy的海市蜃楼</p> <p><a href="http://ariellu.blogbus.com/files/s/12489992980.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://ariellu.blogbus.com/files/12489992980.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a></p><!--sp--><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br /><div class="addfav">收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fariellu.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F43252717.html&title=route">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><img src="http://www1.feedsky.com/t1/293252247/ariellu_blogbus_com/blogbus.com/s.gif?r=http://ariellu.blogbus.com/logs/43252717.html" border="0" height="0" width="0" style="position:absolute" /><p class="fswww1"><a href="http://www1.feedsky.com/r/l/blogbus.com/ariellu_blogbus_com/293252247/art01.html" 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